Friday, January 1, 2010

Opportunities

Opportunities are everywhere --- every time---every minute!!! You just have to look to see. Relationships can teach much to you about yourself. Do you want the best to come out of each relationship or the worst? Your choice. If you are choosing those who bring out the worst in you, ask why? Do you still need those experiences or do you get it?
You must be love. Talk with love in all that you do to get the best out of each relationship. There are moments of tenderness when the façade comes down. Talking from the heart is the deal and you could start. When two people talk from their hearts and say how they feel, moments happen. Good stuff is really important to concentrate on.

Most concentrate on what is wrong with the life or the other person. See what is good. Speak openly with the heart. You will never regret being honest, heart honest.

Sometimes honesty is really a cover for rudeness or cruelty. If you speak from your heart---this is the real honest. There will be nothing cruel about this. Women fall in love in relationships with the male exposing his heart. That is what attracts. If the male closes off, eventually the female will too. However, that goes with all relationships. Life is not really lived and rarely experienced as joyful without the heart being opened.

How can your life change for the good? Talk from the heart. It doesn’t all have to be serious, just heart honest. Enjoy the moments. Don’t race ahead. See the good in another. Do something kind and often, even for total strangers. That helps open the heart. Pay attention to your children. They are open until they feel compelled to close themselves off.
Children who have so-called disabilities rarely have closed hearts. They are just themselves and don’t care if anyone sees them dancing, laughing or just being joyful. They are there to remind you to be yourself and to appreciate life.
Be glad you are alive. The heart is the soul of your being. Speak from your heart, your life will change forever and what a life you will have!!!! What a life?!!!!